Olu and I had our family introduction early this month. I posted few pictures on Instagram with the hashtag #IntroducingTheKundys. Introduction in my culture is when the groom’s family officially introduces themselves to the bride’s family, and asks for their daughter’s hand in marriage to their son. The ceremony was done at my parent’s house with few of our closest friends and families. The 2 women on the left side are the alaga iduros- Olu’s family spokespeople and the woman on the right is the alaga ijoko- my family’s spokesperson. The alaga iduros are telling the alaga ijoko that they are here to see my parents.Our spokesperson is here informing my parents that we have guests from Ondo state, Olu’s hometown.After Olu’s family dances in.
I’m not sure what was going on here but I think she’s introducing both families.
My dad and aunty smiling.Olu is ushered in by some of his friends.
After my family’s spokesperson said something funny about Olu (inside joke)Olu’s spokesperson introduces Olu to my family, speaks of his qualifications and everything that makes him qualified to be my future husband.
Olu and his friends has to greet my parents the traditional way, in our culture this is how men greet the adults?Even though Olu and my sister are friends, traditionally he has to greet her by prostrating. The same applies to every member of my family. First he greets my parents, aunties, uncles then my big sister and her husband. After the introduction between both families, I was finally ushered in by my friends and my family’s spokesperson led us in. This is me dancing in with friends. The rest are still dancing in from upstairs (lol).I was being introduced to Olu’s family. The woman representing my family is speaking on my behalf and saying things that makes me qualified to be a good wife. Time to hug my parents and thank them for how they’ve always taken care of me.
Olu comes to meet me and we sat down. IDK but something was pretty funny to us lol…Yah, finally seating- Yippie!!!Us conversing while the ceremony continues. This is me smiling for the camera while Olu gists away lol. By the end of the night, my cheeks were so sore from all the smiling and laughter.My parents prayed for us.
This is Olu’s mom praying for us.All those that were present passed a bowl around and put money inside as a gift for us.
Olu’s mom and a family friend.
My parents
My big sister and her hubby. Olu’s sister- Sis. Sade.My papa!
There was an exchange of gift by both families and closing prayers.
Selfie with some of my amigos after getting dressed.
More selfies with aunties and friends.With Mummy Obayanju.
Our #ThugLife pose lol.
The queen of selfie herself, Sunny!
My cuzzos, Ade and Folakemi.Kadija + Sunny + Lola!Olu’s sisters and mom.
With Arinola.Funke + LV+ BJ
My custom made Leah Victoria dress, to get a similar dress or anything made, please email LeahV.Inc@gmail.com.
Special thanks to all our family and friends that really made October 4th a memorable day for us. We didn’t get to take pictures with everyone but we have more celebrations coming up… 1 Down 2 to go!.
Professional pictures by Tulux and the rest were taken with our phones.
Congratulations guys! Very happy for you both! God bless your union!
so BEAUTIFUL!
Absolutely beautiful pics. Congratulations and thank you for letting us in on such a personal and intimate experience.
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Stunning as always????
congratulations to you guys
Congratulations! Such a beautiful couple, may God bless your new home.
I love the beauty of your culture, it’s very intriguing. At times I wish that I to had such a strong culture growing up… You are very beautiful and so is your personality. I appreciate you for giving us a glimpse of a part of your life everyday, and thanks for being who you are. I’ve been following your fashion blogs for sometime now and I enjoy seeing different outfits being worn either by you or the celebrities.
Congratulations on your up coming nuptials and all the best that life has to offer.
Best regards,
Cory❤
Congrats SEUN. We shall be there at the wedding by God’s grace.
This is so beautiful. Congrats Dear. God is with you all the way.
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Congratulations! The photos are beautiful
Such beautiful pictures. Congratulations!
I LOVED seeing my girl PeekMill! I’ll preface this by saying that I am Black but not from Africa. I’m here holding back tears and this also made me sooooo sad: 1) It was soooooo beautiful; and 2) I feel ROBBED! Soooo much tradition and standards lost. May you all always keep it alive. Thank you so much for sharing such an intimate part of your life. This was absolutely beautiful.
So beautiful . Your smiles are everything ! Congratulations <3
aww beautiful, so are you guys still going to do traditional wedding? This is almost like the traditional engagement abi?
So beautiful! You look so much like your mum and Olu why so black…his sisters are lightskinned…lol. Wish you guys all the best ????
Aww too cute! Congratulations again girl!!
Thank you for sharing. I’m Liberian and my love is Ghanaian. I’m not familiar with African wedding customs but I wan to have traditional elements as part of our wedding. Congratulations and I wish you a happy and successful marriage
Thank you for sharing. I’m Liberian and my love is Ghanaian. I’m not familiar with African wedding customs but I want to have traditional elements as part of our wedding. Congratulations and I wish you a happy and successful marriage
Looks beautiful and exciting. Congratulation – Lovve the ThugLife Pose – Dope.
This was beautiful thank you for sharing! Congrats on your new journey ????
Le o Aya waa!!! COngratulations!!!!! God bless and Keep you both!
Wow.. this is so beautiful. I love my culture menh… congratulations
Congrats to both of you guys
Beautiful wedding ty for sharing. Congratulations and God bless.
Your collection of shoes reminded me of my collection before I got married. You might not be able to fit into any one of them when you get pregnant, y’know!